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Christine Chiomento posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 2, 2019
I was very devastated the day Lucy died. I had the great pleasure to have known Lucy and her husband Lou since 1970. I met her about 4 months after my husband, who's family had lived down the street from the Nocella's, and I were married, and were visiting his parents over the Christmas holidays that year. I can't say enough good things about Lucy. As an expectant, young mother, she was more help to me than I can ever say. She never failed to be there for me, and for that I will always be grateful. She became, to me, like my second mother, as I struggled with life as a new bride, then new mother. She shared with me her wisdom about children and about family life and relationships. To me, the things she conveyed were invaluable, and I will never forget them.
When my husband and I arrived at the chapel for her viewing, suddenly it hit me: I had just lost the best friend I'd ever had in this world. I began to cry, and the tears kept coming, and I just couldn't bring myself to go in to say good-bye--it just wasn't possible, I was crying so hard. I have always felt so sorry for not being able to go into the chapel, because I saw what I thought were the bewildered looks on the faces of some of her family members, as I turned and nearly ran outside. I just wish I could have explained to them how the realization of losing my very best friend had nearly crushed the life out of me that day. It was rivaled only by the death of my mother, and later, by the death of my son.
Our son was killed in Afghanistan 4 years after Lucy passed away, and even though I missed having Lucy to talk to and be with after that, I realize that it would have affected her nearly as badly as it affected my husband and me, since the day he was born, in order to be with me, she told the nurses at the hospital that she was my mother! So, she was there when Bobby was born, and she and Lou stood in for Bobby's godparents who couldn't be there for his christening at St. Margaret's in Woodbury Heights, NJ. Later, after the birth of our second son, she and Lou were his godparents. I've always cherished the pictures taken that day at St. Patrick's Church in Woodbury, NJ. as they stood there to be his godparents that day.
I will always miss her, but know I was very blessed to have known her as a friend.
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Bonnie C. Baker posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 23, 2002
I was so sorry to hear of Mrs. Nocella's passing. She was my teacher my freshman and sophomore years at Kingsway. I remember wishing she would wait two more years to start her family. She was such a great teacher. I have often wanted to look her up in recent years. I wish I had. She had a great influence on me as I am now a Spanish teacher and lived in Spain many years. I feel fortunate to have had such a great start to my Spanish studies. I remember her as strict but kind and gentle. I know she will be greatly missed by so many. My prayers will be with her family.
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Donna Major posted a condolence
Wednesday, October 23, 2002
Larry,
My thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time. I don't believe I ever had the pleasure of meeting your mother, but I knew instantly when I got to this page that I was at the right place because judging from her pictureyou have her eyes! After reading the other posts in this guestbook, I can tell that your mother was a very respected, active member of her community. You have a lot of reasons to be proud!
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Susan Lynch posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 22, 2002
Sending my sympathy to Rose and all her family at this sad time.
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The Staff of Gloucester County Library Mullica Hill posted a condolence
Monday, October 21, 2002
Larry,
We are sorry to hear that your mother passed away. We are thinking about you.
Your friends at the Library.
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John and Carol, Heather and Dave, Shawn and Christine posted a condolence
Monday, October 21, 2002
I met Louis at work over 30 years ago. Over the years, our families became very close. Through all those times, Lucy was always ready to talk a little optimism and add her special touch if needed. For instance, just last year when it seemed clear my 84-year old father-in-law would not be passing the DMV written test, Lucy stepped in, found a way to encourage and teach him the whole manual, and after a few tries he got his NJ license. She told us how to get the right help for our teenage son when he was in trouble. She worked hard to make my daughter?s wedding shower just that much better.
The Wizard of Oz says that "a heart is not judged by how much you love, but by how much you are loved by others," It is evident that Lucy had a very, very big heart and she touched the lives of countless friends, neighbors, and students. These past few weeks proved that she is the most courageous person I have ever known. We miss her so much, but smile when we think of our times with her. Our heart felt sympathy to Louis and Larry and Ted and everybody who will miss her.
John McGovern and family
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Shawn MacCoy & Tonya Pagoda posted a condolence
Sunday, October 20, 2002
We never had the pleasure of meeting Lucy Nocella, but we know her son Larry, and it's clear from his sensitivity, thoughtfulness and compassion that he came from a family where these virtues were valued... Our hearts and thoughts fly out to the Nocella clan in this difficult time...
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Bob and Louise Marchesani posted a condolence
Sunday, October 20, 2002
Our deepest sympathy to the Nocella family. Lucy was the strongest person we have ever met. During her illness Lucy never once complained. She always said that she was doing okay. We had the greatest pleasure of Lucy being our friend and a truer friend no one has ever had. She will be greatly missed and always remembered.
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Kathie Weber posted a condolence
Saturday, October 19, 2002
To the Nocella family, "Miss Mangano" was my first Spanish teacher at Pitman H.S. many years ago, when her teaching career was just beginning. She was a kind and caring teacher right from the start. Obviously she made an impression on me that has lasted. She instilled in me a life-long interest in the Spanish language and culture, which I have continued to study over the years. I am very sorry to learn of her passing and ask God's comfort for the family.
Sincerely,
Kathie Weber
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Judy Frett posted a condolence
Saturday, October 19, 2002
I had the pleasure of being with Lucy in the '80's whenever I substituted at Woodbury Heights. A challenge was when I had to sub for her as a Spanish teacher for two weeks. She was a great help before and after. I always remember her as being so kind and caring. I know she will be missed.
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Robert J. Chiomento II posted a condolence
Saturday, October 19, 2002
I am very sorry to hear about Mrs. Nocella's passing. She along with her husband were very good friends to my family. She will be missed very much.
Our Condolences,
Robert, Staci, Ambre, and Syleste Chiomento
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Rich, Jane, Mike, Nina, Richie Raspa posted a condolence
Thursday, October 17, 2002
Dear Louis and Family ... Thank you for sharing Lucy with us all .. what a beautiful and strong woman. We will miss our friend but she will always be in our hearts.
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Michel A. Pszwaro posted a condolence
Thursday, October 17, 2002
Always helpful, always friendly and ALWAYS with a smile on her face. This is how I remember Lucy during our days at KRHS.
One of the most caring and capable educators to ever walk the halls of Kingsway.
She will be missed by many, but will be remembered by many, many more.
May her soul rest in peace forever with the Lord.
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Lorrie posted a condolence
Thursday, October 17, 2002
Larry and Ted,
I was very sad to hear of your mother's death. My mother moved here to MD to be with us when my twins were born but still regularly checks the Gloucester County Times online. She was the one who saw the obituary and told me of your loss. I am thinking of you during this difficult time.
Sincere condolences,
Lorrie Leigh
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Edra Chandler posted a condolence
Thursday, October 17, 2002
Lucy Nocella was my department mentor at Kingsway Regional High School at the beginning of my teaching career. I remember her as a warm,gentle,caring and sincere person who advised with optimism and encouragement. I am sad to learn of her passing. I extend my sincere condolences to the family.
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The Truhan Family posted a condolence
Thursday, October 17, 2002
Our sympathy to the Nocella Family. Mrs. Nocella was a wonderful teacher, neighbor and person. She was a truly special person with a gift for making people smile...those of us who knew Mrs. Nocella were blessed. We will miss her very much!
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William V. Moore posted a condolence
Thursday, October 17, 2002
Lucy was truly a wonderful person.
My teaching experience at KRHS was
greatly enhanced by her presence,
thoughtfulness and assistance.
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The Juhring Family: Matt Diane Trevor Luke & Jill posted a condolence
Thursday, October 17, 2002
My family was saddened to read in the paper the passing of Mrs. Nocella. She tutored my son five years ago. Initially I thought it was odd that she requested that I sit and watch her tutor my son. It didn't take long for me to realize that she was also teaching me how to study with my son! She was a wonderful person and I learned so many study techniques and self-esteem boosters for my children. I appreciated her honesty, genuine concern, and advice so much. We loved her nostalgic toys she always had at the end of the table. It was obvious Mrs. Nocella loved her family and her cats. She was a wonderful lady and will always be remembered by our family. Our sincere sympathies to her family and friends.
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Phyllis and Bert Davenport posted a condolence
Thursday, October 17, 2002
What a privilege to have known Lucy. A beautiful person and a willing worker for the Woodbury Heights Senior Citizens Club. We will miss her happy smile, and willing hands. Bert and Phyllis Davenport
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Virginia Steward posted a condolence
Thursday, October 17, 2002
Lucy was my friend. We were born the same month and year. Went to SHS together. Took piano lessons the same day from the same teacher, Mrs. Hill, by the High School. Her husband , Mr. Walter Hill was the principal of our High School.Later the High School was named after him. We both moved to the same town.... Wood. Hts. She told me how wonderful her husband was and how her boys liked dinosaurs when they were little. Sat12th I was in Phila. at the Academy of Natural Sciences. They had a special dinner there for the Underwood/Mem. Hosp. Lots of dinosaurs there.I thought of Lucy. Called my Mother in Swedesboro and told her I was thinking so strongly of Lucy. We were good friends. She will be sorely missed by family and friends. My Mother knew her parents and they were friends.From VS . Mr.McGuinness; please share with Louis.
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Nancy Catando posted a condolence
Thursday, October 17, 2002
From teaching Larry and Ted I knew what a wonderful mother, wife and friend Lucy was. Then I had the great fortune of sharing sveral years of teaching kindergarten with Lucy. What a pleasure those years were and how I treasure those memories. Lucy had a wonderful way with our young students and she shared so much knowledge. She has always and will always be in my heart and prayers. She will be sadly missed by me. My sincere sympathy.
Nancy Catando
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